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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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Hello @outlander , how are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @tyme
went and seen the horses with some help from my sister and then went for abit of a walk by myself with headphones in. i went and brought some fresh produce to make a salad as well. ive been eating alot of ready made heated meals which are ok but i feel i need some fresh stuff.

was nice to get out of the house but i think i mightve overdone it abit. was difficult driving but bringing some independence and normalicy back is good

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tymeModerator

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Awwww. I'm so glad your sister went with you. Has she finished school yet? Horses can be soo therapeutic.

I get you about eating fresh food. Always nice to chomp on fresh cucumbers 🙂

I hope you didn't overdo it and you feel better soon.

Are you just resting up tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no @tyme still in early high school years. other sister has finished but she was working. shes doing them over the weekend.
theyre not therapeutic to me anymore, just another expensive bill i cant afford!

cant go past a fresh salad with light dressing! i like adding grilled chicken or shredded ready cooked chicken too but i didnt feel like meats tonight.

i dont have anything on this weekend so will rest up. i have been given some night shifts for next week. theyre the easier shifts but i still have to prepare and work my way back in since itll be 2 weeks off.
i need to speak to my gp. my fatigue is actually off the charts. i thought the break would have improved it but its made it worse! so strange.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

hey @tyme

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Hey @outlander ,

I'm not staying around but wanted to pass by to say hi 🙂

Hope you are okay.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is anyone around?

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Hey @outlander 🙂

How are you my friend?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @tyme
having alittle bit of a tough day

how are you?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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are you ok @outlander 😍

hello @tyme

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