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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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Awww @outlander ,

I'm so sorry to hear. I wish things could be better. How's everything with the house? (No pressure to answer if you don't feel up to it)

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Slowly getting there @tyme big job on my own.

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tymeModerator

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It is a big job. @outlander I wish other family members would be willing to help out, even a little.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I’m going away for 2 weeks in about 6 weeks time so I’ll be expecting them to do their part while I am away @tyme

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tymeModerator

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I'm glad to hear @outlander . You have done so much already.

Please look after yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Is anyone around to talk to?

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tymeModerator

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Hey @outlander ! I'd love to talk to you if that's okay.

I've really missed chatting with you, but I recognise things have been tough lately.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It’s nice to see you @tyme

your always welcome here. I don’t have really anyone to talk to. I know many struggle here too so I know not many can also support atm either

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tymeModerator

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I always think of you and hope you are okay. As I've said, you have such a big heart. I remember you said you were going in to hospital? Is that right? And you said that your family is going to help with the moving of your pop's things? @outlander

Am i right, or am I dreaming?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I don’t go to hospitals for a few months @tyme
They’re not helping much just going through their own things
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