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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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EternalFlowerSenior Contributor

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hi @outlander what are you holding onto to keep safe?

the things can be tiny - but they can be worlds good

your strength, beauty and wisdom is always with u on the forums - hearing u x

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

Hoping today goes well for you hon

Sending lots of hugs 💌💌

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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Morning @outlander, I hope today is a kind day for you ❤️

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

Wishing you a good day today hon 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @EternalFlower @Snowie @creative_writer

its nice and warm today but its more of a day off me since i worked last night.
have cleaned out a chest freezer and have sold it to be picked up today, and cleaned out my pantry which is also for sale. ive donated lots of pantry items to a family in need today as well.
have a couple of other things that were for sale being picked up this afternoon as well

i will probably go see pop later today as i have some photos and some other homely things for his room but i may go tomorrow instead


what is everyone up to today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like things are going in the right direction @outlander

Went to the shopping centre with hubby. Got mum a mothers day present. Now only have to get mother in law one.

Now home on the couch trying not to fall asleep.

Did you make it to see your pop or doing it tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I’m going to go tomorrow instead @Snowie
I’ve been called into work from 5-10pm. I wasn’t going to accept but I need the money.

Sounds like a busy day shopping today. A nap might be good or chilling watching a movie is good too.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hoping your shift goes quickly @outlander

If I fall asleep now I won't sleep tonight, so just watching the footy.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It should be ok @Snowie it’s only 4 hours but it’s double time so it works out ok.

I’m watching everyone loves Raymond at the moment with a cup of tea. It’s nice being able to have some down time

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well double time is better @outlander

I love that show, one of my favourites.

After what you have gone through lately I think you deserve the down time hon. Just time to chill out would be nice.

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