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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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Webchat sounds awesome 🙌🏻☺️ @outlander

i didn’t know there was one before 🙂


The symptoms sound awfully serious - I hope this is the turning point and you start to get better from now on ❤️‍🩹🌺💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i have a lot of medical conditions that exacerbate even a cold let alone covid @Former-Member but should be up from here.

what are you doing today?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@outlander, I hope you feel better soon, hon. Existing physical health issues are easily exacerbated by coming down with something. I was sick a lot last year, it was awful. Sending you healing vibes 💖🫂

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Unknown userMember

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Im really sorry to hear that @outlander 💜

Its really hard when viruses come along when living with other medical conditions, because they are so rough on the immune system, and immunity is already flat chat trying to keep things running smoothly 😞🌺

Today, I am following up on some emails, and doing a bit of reading for some research projects where I get to contribute with a team of consumers as a volunteer 🙂🙌

How about you? I hope you aren't too busy and can get some rest today 🙂💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @creative_writer
i was hoping to be back at work by the end of the week but im not sure now. i have to test neative before i can go back to work

what are you up to today

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds like an interesting day @Former-Member

no, not busy today. im pretty tired and its hot which isnt helping anything so ill probably have a shower and just watch a movie. ive been scrap booking alot but ive run out of themes till my new stuff arrives this week.

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Unknown userMember

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Thanks @outlander 😀 Yes, I find it really interesting, and Im hopeful itll help down the track 🙂

Movie and rest sounds excellent while you recover 🌺

And then by the time the new scrapbooking arrives, hopefully you'll be feeling much better! 💜😊

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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor

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Hi @creative_writer and @outlander 🙂

Just wanted to pop in to say hello and also adding on to @creative_writer and their healing vibes, sending you some of my energy today too and hope you can feel better soon. Allow yourself to rest, your body needs it right now it sounds 🙂

Hope that both of your days can go smoothly this arvo 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Former-Member i think all the new stuff is arriving tomorrow

me and pop havent really left the house in over a week so we are going to see my horses and spend some time in some fresh air after his nap as well.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@outlander, I hope you can rest up and do restorative things for yourself this afternoon and I hope the rest comes back neg by the end of the week. I remember having covid, it was awful. I think particularly hard for those who have chronic pain. What are some thing you can do for yourself this afternoon?

I’m not up to much, trying to stay cool, it’s hot in Melbourne again. I did some uni stuff in the morning, but still have a lot to go. Brain fog is hard.

Hi @PizzaMondo, I hope you are doing well this afternoon 🙂
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