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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

is there any helplines that are like sane or kids helpline that have or use to have a webchat.
lifeline is hopeless and i dont really want to bother when im not in crisis anyway but i feel like i need someone to talk to

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Try beyond blue. I’ve used theirs before.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I tried them but they gave me 15 minutes and said that it’s good I have psych on Wednesday to talk @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Sorry

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Unknown userMember

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Hey there @outlander

Outside of lifeline and its affiliated company, and beyond blue, I’ve not been able to find anything unfortunately.
Is it something you’d feel comfortable talking about here on the forum?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its all good @Captain24 most helplines are abit of a roll of the dice they use to be pretty good but they seemed to have changed

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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not really @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember

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No worries @outlander , that's completely understandable 💜

I wish there was something I could reliably and confidently recommend, however to my knowledge I havent got any suggestions beyond what you have already tried 😞

Having said that, I want to very much acknowledge the chasm that this leaves, where people seeking the type of support you are seeking, do not have somewhere suitable to go at the right times, or can get their concerns taken seriously at times too.

I hope it is some kindness to you to know that youre not alone? If there is anything you might feel comfortable to chat about here, please do tag me in 🙂🌺

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping you are feeling a little better at least.

Sending lots of 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Former-Member it would be great if sane got their webchat working again. it was always helpful


@Snowie have had a bad day and night with symptoms and required the dr overnight but hopefully with the additional medications itll help abit. we are at day 5 already i thought symptoms would be better not worse hopefully though this is the peak of the illness
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