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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i would love to move to byron bay or huskisson @Eve7 the beach cabins in Huskisson is just to die for. ive been there a couple of times and i would sit on that beach all day. i hate the sand though so i bring a camp chair lol. i can deal with it on my feet so go walking but anywhere else it just irritates me lol

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hunter valley also has amazing views too @Eve7 but its very wine country.

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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor

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@outlander
Yesss! That feeling, when you've literally just paused, standing still, or perhaps you're sitting down on a bench... you take a deep breath in, you can feel the salt and even taste it on your tongue, and you just look out to the sea... beautiful! :')

(and probably ever Pirate's dream, haha ARRR!)

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’ve never been to Huskisson @outlander but I’ll take your word for it. Fremantle has great views of the sunset and every evening people sit on the beachfront watching the sun go down…a great free activity!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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look up Huskisson South Coast NSW @Eve7 its only a little town but so beautiful.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes @PizzaMondo ive had to remind myself to stop and breathe many a time but now when i go somewhere peaceful and scenic it becomes automatic like i switch off for a moment and take it all in.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

Hope work went ok for you last night and today goes well

Sending 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Unfortunately no work for me and now in isolation as pop has covid @Snowie I’m trying not to get it because I have important appts next week so this is crap timing. I’ll only be out super early to do the horses while he sleeps now for the next week

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh dear @outlander that is terrible news.

I really hope that you don't get it, especially with your appt.s coming up.

Hopefully your pop doesn't get it too bad and you don't have to do too much for him.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Oh no!! That’s not good at all @outlander I hope you don’t get it and Pop only has a mild dose.

Stay safe 🩵

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