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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive taken a liking to beach walking late evening or early morning for sunrise/sunset lately @Eve7 its been so nice. sometimes i dont really have the energy to walk so ill go sit on the rocks. i forget how peaceful it is to just stop and breathe in that salty air and watch the view. im so jealous of the people that live within walking distance to a beach or live on the beach. i would love that

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8 how your bundle of energy going? is she settling into life at home?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Aww my little Hannah 🐶 is just gorgeous @outlander . Settled in so well. Yes still a little ball of energy, but learning how to direct it appropriately 😊. Had her first day of puppy school yesterday and was a little star. Total social butterfly, so opposite to me 😂. Already knew and good at most of the basics like recall, sit, down, walk on lead, etc. But very important for the socialisation aspect for her. And she loved it.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 I would sit there and watch 5 days of test cricket in a row!!

Both my parents didn't watch it but it was something I always did with my Nan. She was a cricket tragic too!

@Emelia8 Hannah sounds adorable. I'm so glad she went well at puppy school 💕

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I must admit I do like living near the beach @outlander and I try not to become complacent about such beautiful surroundings even when I’m miserable.

Salt air is good for the soul 🩵 This pic isn’t where I live but a few hours away. S2 and I were there on Friday night.

 

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that's so good @Emelia8 she sounds so adorable! i love watching puppies play and interact.
ha yes pups do have a way of making us socialise!

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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor

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I agree with you @Eve7 - salt air is absolutely wonderful for the soul!

Love the sun setting here, so beautiful!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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wow @Eve7 i would love to live there. what a view!

i cant decide whether i want beach front homes or mountain view homes lol. they both sound desirable but i think id be happy with just a nice view!

im only about 20 minute drive from the beach but sometimes its such an effort to get there when im on a time limit

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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salt air and fresh air does wonders for people @PizzaMondo esp when you stop and take time to take a look at the view

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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If you want beach and mountains @outlander move to the north coast of NSW where you can see Mt Warning and Byron Bay but you might need to win lotto!! I think the people there have the best views in Australia.

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