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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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the 8th isnt to far away only about 2 weeks really @Snowie maybe if approved you can be scheduled in 3 weeks time that allows you to go to the appt

im struggling alot at the moment. but trying to be ok for now. its hard being at home. i miss the pet thats gone and it doesnt really feel the same. shes been with me for over 12 years now so her missing presence is definently being felteven though she was an outdoor pet.

have more appts to go across the next couple of weeks as my bladder and liver arent working properly so another specialist to add to the list to find out what is happening and how to resolve it.

ive been having a clearout too mostly the stuff in my room though so i can declutter.

ive been doing more work the past couple of days and really exhausted myself so todays a rest day and early bed thats for sure.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No pet is more important than another one @outlander whether it be an indoor or outdoors pet. They still mean a lot to us.

Hopefully the specialist will be able to give you some answers soon.

A rest day sounds nice, hopefully you can make some time for yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is there any reason your having a clean out @Snowie are you upgrading your linens?

i just dontated alot of mine as i got myself a bigger bed so ive brought some new bedding

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Just been watching it get messier and messier @outlander plus have brought a new mattress so some sheets won't fit it. Thats ok, hubby will use them as rags in his garage.

Did all my and son's bedding today and will do daughters tomorrow.

What are you doing tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sorry @Snowie had to go and manage urges

im just doing the horses in the morning and work in the arvo thats about all.

what about you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey @outlander hon. Wishing you a good day today hon 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie what are you up to today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Went to kmart for one thing @outlander Came home with a few more 😁

The did some food shopping and washing. Changed both kids beds.

Now just sitting down having a cuppa and watching tv.

How has your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh gosh i never walk out of kmart with just one thing lol @Snowie

im having abit of a tough day. some of the reports for ndis are coming back so theyre abit hard to read as a truth thing. its like lifes being laid out in front of me, many of the reports say im a difficult person.

i have decided to start a new hobby. im going to start scrapbooking. theres s many themed stickers etc these days i thought i would give it ago. i just brought a massive bulk pack for only $40 off facebook so i just need to buy a scrap book now to start

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

I'm sure those reports are hard to handle @outlander but if it gets you one step closer to ndis approval/funding then hopefully it is worth it.

Scrap booking sounds like a good hobby. I haven't really looked into what is involved in it. If it helps and keeps you occupied then it can't be a bad thing.

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