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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Snowie i havent been able to go home yet. just keep working because its to hard being home at the moment

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sending lots of love @outlander I’m so sorry about the loss of your pet. 🩵🥲🩵

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear that @outlander I hope you are not overdoing it hon.

Sending lots fo love 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Snowie @Eve7
todays the first day ive been home and its hard but i know shes at rest now . i think ill feel better once i have her cremations back with me early next week. it wouldve been this weekend but its the long weekend.

do you guys have any plans today?


i had a really big OT meeting yesterday but i think itll be the final report for my NDIS application

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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must be a tough time for you @outlander

Hopefully it is the last report that you need for NDIS and then I guess the waiting happens.

Not up to a lot today. Need to go to the chemist, hopefully it is open. Just had call from admissions.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Snowie i should hopefully get the report back by monday.

will you be admitted soon? is it the same hospital that you normally go to?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is anyone around to talk to?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry @outlander

notifications aren't coming through.

Here if you need

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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notifications arent working for me either @Snowie or they are very slow

just lonley i guess. could use people to talk to.
when will you be heading in for your admission?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Some are working, some are not @outlander

Not sure when admission will be, will depend on work cover too. Mums got a dementia appt. on 8th Feb that I really need to be there for. I know pdoc won't be happy but I can't go in before that.

Speak to pdoc tomorrow again, just by phone.

Have been trying to clean out my linen closet but haven't got very far yet. Just put on another load of bed linen.

What has been happening with you?

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