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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Oh how lush @outlander! I hope you can get out there and have your dream holiday. I honestly feel you on the quiet, scenic holidays being ideal! Like I couldn't imagine going on a holiday and saying "Ooh yes, New York City, let's go!"

It's why camping is such a fav pasttime of mine. Nothing but me and the trees! Do you like camping?

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i like glamping lol @Jynx i will stay in the bush but in a cabin lol

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Glamping also brilliant @outlander I'm with you!

I remember once my family stayed in this like... park ranger cabin? It was this little house out in the middle of nowhere in the bush, and had a generator and all the amenities. Which in my opinion is waaaay better than just getting a cabin at a caravan park - no neighbours! But whatever you can find is also good.

Do you like bush, rainforest, beach, or mountain best?

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i honestly dont mind @Jynx i think it depends on the location.
i like the idea of having rolling mountains to look over with paddocks and animals in view but i also like the ideas of sunrise/sunset beach walks.

i like rainforests but i dont like leaches! i will go for a walk through the forest to get to waterfall though! i just make sure i get covered in aeroguard and take a bottle of salt lol

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Ach it's all so lovely isn't it @outlander! I think mountainy rainforest is my fav, which is probably why I love Tassie so much!

Lol leeches are pretty awful, I totally get you! Funny story, when I was a kid, maybe like 7, my family went for a rainforest walk, and there were heaps of leeches. My mum had noticed me scratching at my... er, unmentionables. Kept telling me off, but we kept walking, but I couldn't stop scratching!

Yeah so turns out, a leech had crawled up into my undies! I screamed like mad, I think mum had to hold me down so they could get it off. Made for a pretty memorable walk! Hahaha

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omg @Jynx that is a big nope from me and that is why i dont go to rainforests haha. full body suit for me thanks!

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Haha "New Phobia Unlocked!" ay @outlander? Sorry! But also hope it gave you a wee chortle, I still laugh about it.

Now just picturing you in full hazmat suit, going for a walk in the rainforest 🤣

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im gunna be in one of those full yellow hazmat suits like the ones on Monsters Inc when that human sock gets on that poor monster @Jynx hahaha

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Hahaha brilliant @outlander with a big spray bottle full of salt water to boot!

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exactly! @Jynx
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