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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i cant believe my luck. i am now jobless within the next few weeks.

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tymeModerator

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Oh @outlander . I'm not hanging around tonight, but I wanted to respond to you. I'm really really sorry to hear about potentially being jobless. I know how much this is going to bite, especially as you are still recovering.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its my new favorite job @tyme its been a tough day getting the 2 weeks notice before its closed down.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh hun @outlander

I'm so sorry to hear that news, and just before christmas too.

Did they give you a reason at all?

Here with you hon 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes they did but i cant share it here and i spoke to the manager properly in person. they trust me and theyve become like a close friend so we are still going to keep con-tact when all is over as well. @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I guess at least you at least got a reason @outlander Better than just wondering what happened.

How are you going with it today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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still stressed but ive had a couple of leads for work so going to chat to a couple across the next few days. ill still have some work across christmas at least anything is better then nothing @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That is a good way of looking at it hon, at least you will have some work @outlander

Hopefully by talking to others you might be able to secure another job. You certainly have the experience and hopefully they can give you a strong recommendation too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i think the initial shock has worn off abit and have been able to sort of wrap my head around it @Snowie there was no warning leading up to it so all of a sudden i wouldve been jobless and bascially no work at all so at least i have some leads and thats a start. hopefully itll lead to something if not if it really comes down to it i could go back to the company i dont like working for as a temporary measure. but that is def a last resort ive worked to hard to go back there now the environment is to toxic

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully it doesn't come to that point @outlander I know how toxic that place is for you hon.

Are you working tonight at all or tomorrow?

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