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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 Oct 2023, 7:17 pm AEDT

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I hope both of those appointments go well for you @outlander

It is a nice treat for afterwards. Plus I get every 6th coffee free!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Oct 2023, 7:27 pm AEDT

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yay for free coffee lol @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 Oct 2023, 7:35 pm AEDT

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Going to head to bed hon @outlander

I hope both of your appointments go well for you tomorrow.

Catch you tomorrow hon 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Oct 2023, 7:47 pm AEDT

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goodnight @Snowie i hope you sleep well

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 8:42 am AEDT

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@outlander wishing you well for your appointments today hon.

Sending lots of strength and love 💌💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 11:53 am AEDT

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first appt went well @Snowie drs next

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 12:50 pm AEDT

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Thats good news @outlander Hoping the gp goes just as well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 6:25 pm AEDT

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thanks @Snowie i didnt get to see my own gp as she was sick but seen another. she just gave me stronger meds and told me that she doesnt really want to waste money running more tests when all my tests for this have come back fine in the past.

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 6:29 pm AEDT

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Awww sorry you couldn't see your normal gp @outlander That is tough when we can't see our usual supports. I hope the stronger meds do help, at least until you go for your treatment.

How do you feel about not having more tests?

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2023, 6:35 pm AEDT

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i dont really want any more tests but it sounds like im needing a review with my gastro specialist @Snowie i might get a second opinion from someone new. ive been seeing the same one on and off for a couple of years now but might need some fresh eyes

she doesnt feel comfortable letting me have the same procedure done so i can administer better meds but i can still take orally at least. will see how it goes across the next week. if its not any better ill see my normal gp. i have to get some referrals anyway

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