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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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People rarely get in contact with me unless they want something @outlander I figure if they really want to talk to me that they can call me.

I sometimes sell things too.

Have you planned what is for tea tonight?

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yeah thats the same for me to @Snowie


im not sure. we only got up near lunch time and ive just cut up some rockmelon. neither of us are overly hungry more just abit peckish so having some fruit

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Sometimes I wish I had close friends @outlander who would just ring me out of the blue. But then I realise that it works both ways and I could always ring them, which I never would. I guess if I don't put in some effort then it wouldn't work anyway.

I think we might just have take away for tea. Maybe Thai. I can't be bothered cooking!

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relationships can be hard @Snowie i find them tricky too. i havent really had any healthy ones only ones that require people to rely on me

ive got some nuggets and spring rolls here so might just cook those later on. i havent had thai in a long time!

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Hey @outlander and @Snowie 🙂 Oh, and @Eve7 too! Thinking of you all.

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hey @tyme its nice to see you

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They can be hard @outlander especially if it is give, give, give all the time. Even when I was younger I was never someone who had many friends. Yes I would get along with most, but no close friends.

Nuggets and spring rolls sound perfect for dinner! The kids love thai, malaysian, indian, those sort of foods. They would pick those take away after fast food any day.

Hi @tyme how has your day been?

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Nice to see you too. I was so unwell a few days ago. But I'm so much better now and feel REALLY good.. @outlander ... thank God! The doctor was concerned it was my liver or gall bladder or heart... so I got lotsa tests done. They also said my blood pressure was very high which is unusual because usually my blood pressure is low... who knows??? You would know better than me that our bodies have a mind of its own 🙂

How are you? Working?

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Hey @Snowie ,

I'm having a really good day. I feel so good because I took a young man to my property to go have a look because he really needs a place to stay. I'm not sure if I've told you already. He trying to come clean, and has come out of rehab.

He cried when he saw the place because he was so grateful I would let him stay there.

It made my day.

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I’m sorry you’ve been unwell @tyme but pleased that you’re on the mend. You’re right about our bodies having a mind of their own.

I haven’t been able to eat today just so churned up about this admission.

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