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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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slowly getting there with it @Snowie i still need a fair bit though so really need to keep working as much as possible

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Sitting you @Eve7
Hearing that lot is happening 💛

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @fluffylight My si is still strong but not screaming at me anymore.

How is your day going?

@outlander I hope you get the money hon. One less thing to worry about especially when you are getting treatment. You just need to focus on you during that time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sure itll all work out @Snowie everything else is sorted mostly till its closer. ill sort through the rest during the next week or so and make sure i have everything and finalise details.

what are you up to today? any walks with the dog planned

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @fluffylight

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Hi @Snowie
I wonder how thats sitting with you and how you are navigating through that?

Strong but not screaming hmm holding so much space.

My days been going okay - the school holidays are over so my siblings went for one last movie with they friends - and then they back to school!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm glad things are getting sorted out hon.

Not up to much today @outlander H gone to watch Bathurst with friends. Was invited but didn't want to deal with 'small talk' today and no interest in car racing!

It is hard to sit with @fluffylight It isn't as bad as it was so that's a positive.

You might get some peace now that your siblings are back at school. No more macca runs late at night!

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander 🙂

Thanks for saying hi! How are you going?

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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I am glad its a positive but I can hear how hard it is to sit with. How are you moving along with these thoughts that aren't as loud but are present? @Snowie

Yes! I'm off the hook with that one! - Also my sister tried the iced coffee she loved it

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah im not into the car racing either @Snowie but sometimes its good to go to one. i havent been to bathrust but ive been to a couple of car shows around there and its been pretty good.

i think id be to tired to be around anymore people today so im ok with resting at home!

i think itll be an early night tonight too. dinner that we were going to has been cancelled cause we are all to tired.
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