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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Things seem to be working out for you hon @outlander You should be proud of yourself. You reached out for something and got it. I am super proud of you 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7 @Snowie

You’re welcome to talk anytime here @Appleblossom. We are here for you too

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Dear @outlander YOU always have been there for me ... ups and downs ... Slid.es and slippery dips

and dear @Faith-and-Hope 's swings and roundabouts ... and dont forget see saws....

Thank you. I dont forget it.

@Captain24 @tyme @Eve7 @Snowie

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 @outlander Today was much better. I was still anxious and up late past midnight despite trying to settle at 10, but in the end, I slept and relaxed about being on time ... missed the first 40 mins but no dramas. Had a big long day and was well refreshed. The lady I looked for had only booked in one day ... so I may see her another time ... had to let go. #rd day for me tomorrow.

Part of the issue ... is figuring out ... where I fit re standards and which groups I should be in ... and allowing myself full natural rights to enjoy my music making finally after .... so long. Not having to worry about others needs... but learning to assert mine. No trauma trigger today. Good playing and lots of convivial chats.

Sending gentle warm good vibes.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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we are here for each other @Appleblossom


im glad there was no trauma trigger today. it can be hard to figure out where we fit in and where we feel most comfortable esp when it comes to established groups. i find it really hard to fit in anywhere so i can understand

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is anyone still around?

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning hon @outlander

Wishing you a good day today 💌💌

Hi @Appleblossom @Faith-and-Hope hoping your days are going well too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Faith-and-Hope @Snowie i ended up needing to go to hospital for physical issues that i was trying to ride out.
going to work in a couple of hours now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh dear @outlander I hope everything turned out ok.

Are you well enough to go to work?

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