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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 11:25 am AEST

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i really enjoy the new place @Snowie sometimes i think its going to go bad because its actually something good and i look forward to going there

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 11:32 am AEST

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Thats understandable to feel that way @outlander especially with the experiences you have had so far.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 3:18 pm AEST

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My psychologist cancelled for tomorrow @Snowie I was looking forward to it but she’s sick.

I’m still trying to tackle all the washing. I really should do a load or 2 every couple of days instead of leaving it till like 2 weeks 😕 almost there though but my sheets won’t be getting changed today I’ll do that tomorrow since I’m not working.

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:10 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear that your psych cancelled @outlander I guess they are only human.

When do you see them next?

I try and do a load a day keeps me on top of it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:23 pm AEST

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yeah shes trying to reschedule @Snowie but the 2 she offered me im unable to take so she will try and find other spaces if something comes up

ive completed most of the washing now and folded it up. i got most done in the dryer. just down to the last load now. im putting whatever i can in the dryer and the rest on the air rack and hopefully overnight itll be dry and can get it all out of the way

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:26 pm AEST

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I hope something comes up for you @outlander

Well done for getting the washing done. Mine is just drying too, so should be dry to put away tomorrow.

Do you have to work tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:27 pm AEST

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no i dont work tomorrow @Snowie
wednesday i do and thursday and saturday

im not working as much next week either but the week after i have a 40hour week plus my extra job but i dont think ill be able to do 40 hours with pop ill have to cut some of the shift hours down or give up a shift i think

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:35 pm AEST

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It must be hard with your pop and trying to work in between everything @outlander

Have you got any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:36 pm AEST

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yes while he is out ill go for a walk. i would normally have my psych appt during that time but ill use it to go for a walk instead.
the rest of the time i dont know. i dont really have anything else to do but im sure ill find something i guess

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 4:38 pm AEST

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on a random note @Snowie i just seen that BBT made it to the top 10 list of worlds most popular tv show. its ranked as number 4

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