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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Snowie its only because this treatment come around so fast. my debts are slowly. very slowly but its getting there. 2 of them will be gone by the end of the year which will free up a little bit to keep paying extra on another one.

well ive filled in all the papers that were required, had a meeting, made enquiries for a new support worker, and done a little bit of shopping.
ive sorted out most of the house duties here as well despite it being a total mess! showers and personal care done, dinner done. just need to do.
tomorrow if everything goes to plan i can head for a walk and get some housework done.

what did you get up to today? any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @hanami slowly getting there. just over halfway through now.

hows your day been?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well done for getting so much done today @outlander You have accomplished a lot.

Haven't done a lot today, just some cleaning the toilets and bathrooms.

Not many plans for tomorrow. Will just see if I get any sleep or not tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie i have more tests coming up so its a lot happening at the moment but better for me to stay busy where i can.

cleaning the bathrooms is a good start. one of my least favorite chores as well as the dishes!

hopefully you can get some sleep and tomorrow pans out abit better

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope all the tests go ok for you @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it might give some answers to some of the symptoms im getting but seem to be unexplained. the cardiologist has picked up on things the others ive seen havent so it might actually be something @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well it is good that it has been picked up @outlander Better then no one seeing it.

Hopefully you can get some answers now and they can do something to help you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hope so @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Jynx @tyme are you around? wondering if you can assist with a member. i have nothing in me tonight but they could use some support

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tymeModerator

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I'm here @outlander

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