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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator31 Aug 2023, 6:36 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander ,

That sounds tough. Do you take your pop to your current workplace?

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2023, 6:38 pm AEST

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yes @tyme he comes there up to 4 times a week

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SnowieSenior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 10:54 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander

Wishing you a good day today hon.

Sending love 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 7:35 pm AEST

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im so stressed trying to work out how to afford my medical bills. it feels like im going to have to give up even more including my psych sessions to be able to afford what i need. i jsut cant get myself out of debt any faster and loosing work is not helpful as i wouldve bene making extra repayments but now i work just to make enough for bills and very minimal left over now

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Eve7Senior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 7:41 pm AEST

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That doesn’t sound good @outlander I am sorry

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 7:45 pm AEST

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its so hard @Eve7 gone from working 40 hours a week to sometimes only 20 hours a week now. i was going to take another loan out to pay for my medical expenses but then ill be in even more debt that i dont know how to be able to pay back but this trip is coming up fast and my car needed a repair so it just took all my savings that i had. now i need to get at least another 2k together within 11 weeks

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tymeModerator01 Sept 2023, 8:21 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander , how are you tonight? Sorry if I've posted in the wrong place. Feel free to tag me elsewhere.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 8:28 pm AEST

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Aww hugs my @outlander

Sitting with you xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 8:29 pm AEST

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not great @tyme struggling and stressing

thanks @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor01 Sept 2023, 8:33 pm AEST

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Can be very overwhelming @outlander ,

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