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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully you can get another job at a better place soon @outlander

Have you got any plans to do anything?

Not up to much today. Bit sore and sorry for myself. Think I am relying on prn too much.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so to @Snowie but its not looking likely until pops in permanent care but ill keep trying

no just studying. maybe go for a walk but the shorts i was wearing today rubbed the scars from my surgery and made them abit sore and one has abit of ulcering so i think ill see how i am tomorrow. might need to put dressing back on and be more careful with what i go walking in!
back to work on the weekend but pops spending time with different family members through the day so i wont need to take him on sunday thankfully


its hard when something works but may not be the best solution hey
are you planning one last trip to the snow before change of season?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats not good hon about your scars @outlander Hopefully they are ok.

Impressed that you could wear shorts!! Cold and rainy here today.

Glad your pop is spending time with other family members. You could probably do with the break.

No more snow this year. Season is finishing and not much snow left.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hardly ever wear pants @Snowie no matter how cold it is. my go to is always a pair of shorts plus it was a balmy 26 degrees here today lol

yes i can definently use a break. its non stop work at the moment but its all work i dont really enjoy

bugger well i guess going back to the snow will be something to look forward to next year

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Can i come to your house @outlander 26 degrees sounds great!!

Just had a shower and gotten into,bed. Hoping sleep comes soon

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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haha @Snowie its good every once in a while but when it gets to summer not a fan of the heat lol

ive had my shower already while waiting on dinner. i think ill be in bed soon enough too

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Wishing you a good day today @outlander

Hoping everything goes well 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hate today already @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 😢

Want to talk about it or we can just sit with a cuppa?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i just hate going to work where i am. its actually turned into a hate which is sad @Snowie i have half the shift covered at least. i cant really afford to take another day off at this point but im burnt out and pop has to come everywhere i go all the time like a shadow. its getting frsutrating that i ask him to do one thing and he cant do it. i leave him home for half hourask him to make breakfast and its never done. i am exhausted being a home carer. i just want it to hurry up and end
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