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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Captain24Senior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 4:24 pm AEST

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Hi @tyme .

Hope you are well?

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tymeModerator24 Aug 2023, 4:32 pm AEST

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I'm pretty okay. I feel I should be feeling better since the sunshine has come out @Captain24 I'm not bad or anything, but wish I had more buzz in me 🙂

I read up on what happened at your appointment. How are you feeling about it all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:13 pm AEST

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hey @tyme nice to see you, hows your day been

@Snowie @Captain24 how have your days been

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Captain24Senior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:16 pm AEST

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It’s been a pretty rough day today @outlander.

Hows your shift going? What time do you finish?

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:30 pm AEST

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exhausting @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:32 pm AEST

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oh dear @Snowie would you like to talk about it?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:35 pm AEST

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oh @Captain24 do you want to talk about?

the shift is going ok. dragging away slowly. almost done with the chores just waiting on the dishwasher and dryer to finish up.
i dont finish till 1030

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:38 pm AEST

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@outlander same old s**t just a different day. Over complaining on here. Just over life.

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Captain24Senior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 5:54 pm AEST

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I had a dietitian appt today that didn’t go overly well @outlander. I had to confront a lot of things.

I get the dragging on. I’ve looked at the clock at work before and seen only 4 have passed and realised I still had 8 hrs to go. Then I think to myself most people’s shifts are 8 hrs! Lol

I hope it picks up for you and that you can sit and watch a movie to pass the time. Hopefully 10:30 comes around quickly.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2023, 6:05 pm AEST

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im hearing you @Snowie i hate when its a never ending revolving door
are you still renovating a house?

im sorry todays appt was so tough @Captain24 it can be confronting sometimes hey

lol my shifts range from 8-12 hours but today its 9.

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