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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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company is nice @tyme

i dont know maybe abit of both. i just dont like it here. theres alot of memories and i also dont like to stay home when i can be out. i feel like i should be doing something
i dont cope well being on my own. well i do but not so much in this house.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m here too @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Captain24 company is good

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I have been following along. @outlander. I’m sorry things are so hard.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I want to learn more about it too @tyme. The first Australian that lost his life, lost it in friendly fire. That what happened to my uncle too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It’s ok @Captain24 life is really sucky. I’m trying to do my best to be ok

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tymeModerator

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Wow @Captain24 . It's so interesting. So is it your mum's brother?

@outlander , does watching tv or reading help?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Dads brother @tyme.

Is there anyway you can set up your room to be able to create it as your safe space? My bed is a my safe place. @outlander

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tymeModerator

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That's so close to home then @Captain24 . So it's not even a second uncle or anything. No wonder it means so much. Was your dad in the war as well?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Nah dad was lucky enough to not get called up. @tyme. I know a few of the vets though, as they are fathers of people I went to school with.

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