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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats really good to hear @outlander At least you don't have to fork out money for it, as I know they can be really expensive. Hopefully if you need a neck MRI too that it can be bulk billed also.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes so glad @Snowie
i guess we will see what happens across the next couple of days

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JynxModerator

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Fingers crossed for you @outlander - for scans and for opportunity to get out for a walk. Do you have some nice area you tend to go for your walks? I find it really good for my mh to get out into nature werever possible.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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well ill only have about 45 minutes to go for a walk @Jynx so ill go for a walk around my work estate like i normally do. then i can be at work on time as well before pop also gets dropped off

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JynxModerator

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Sounds super lovely @outlander I hope it comes to fruition 😊

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I hope all works out with your scans @outlander.

A walk sounds like a lovely thing to do for your self. I hope you are able too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so too @Jynx i havent been overly well so abit of a walk might be nice and me leg has been alot better today so some gentle exercise might be helpful.
im trying to get healthier and back to a healthy weight after medication side effects so my goal is to become more healthier and fitter and become back to a healthy weight.

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JynxModerator

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@outlander yeah sometimes I have to force myself to get out for a walk each day, and I never end up regretting it. Also, glad to hear that you're setting yourself a goal that is health oriented, that is sooo important.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Hoping you get your walk in @outlander.

Wishing you a good day

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

Wishing you a great day hon.

Sending love 💕💕

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