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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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You’ve had a productive day already @Snowie
Yes I’ve had a rest now. I don’t leave for another 45 minutes so I’ll continue to rest for abit and hopefully meds work abit by the time I get to work.

It’s abit better than the last 2 days so I’m hoping that means it’s on the road to recovery. I’m sorry your days not going to well. It really sucks when there doesn’t seem to be an end in sight @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m not ok @fluffylight

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you are resting @outlander

I hope your shift goes quickly for you.

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fluffylightSenior Contributor

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Holding space for you to share whats going on if you like 💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I feel like I’ve failed as a human

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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What’s happening @outlander?

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JynxModerator

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Some heavy feels there @outlander - here if you wanna chat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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There always seems to be something wrong with me.
I was told today that maybe I’m over exaggerating and that I’m just seeking attention from medical professionals and to reliant on them.
Maybe I am but I didn’t think i was. Maybe they are right.
It makes me rethink the supports I have and who I even have in my life. Maybe if I stay quiet I’ll be better and things will be ok for me

@Captain24 @Jynx

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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OH, @outlander you are so worth being heard. We are here for you and really care. You're such an important part of this community. Sending big hugs to you xxx

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JynxModerator

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Aww @outlander that is really rough to hear. I personally believe that we are the ones who get to decide how much support we need. If you find it helpful to have these supports in place then that's your choice! If you think that moving towards a state where you rely on them less, that's your choice too. But only when you are ready for that!

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