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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Ohh hugs my dear sister @Snowie , sitting together ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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gosh @Snowie it would be hard nt to have your supports. it sucks they didnt find you someone to replace your therapist while she was away even if it was only one or 2 sessions just to help get you through


whats happening for you @Shaz51

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JynxModerator

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They're half sisters @Shaz51 - different dads. So Trixie is the one in my profile pic, she's a calico. Razz is only 4 months old, she's a lil tabby. Here's some pics!

Little RazzRazz n Trixie snoozing

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Awwwww @Jynx

Triple looks like my sweetie I had years ago

And awww love little razz🥰

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JynxModerator

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They're half sisters @Shaz51 - different dads. So Trixie is the one in my profile pic, she's a calico. Razz is only 4 months old, she's a lil tabby. Here's some pics!

Little RazzRazz n Trixie snoozing

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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They are beautiful looking cats @Jynx A family is so much more then just people. Our fur family is so important to us.

@outlander it is hard not having that support. Even though I was prepared for it (she gave me prior notice) I didn't realise just how much I rely on her. My MH certainly has taken a battering since she has been away. It hasn't helped either that within that time my pdoc was away too.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Thanks my sister @outlander , @Snowie

My Mr shaz seems to go around in cycles @Jynx

This week has been crazy and he is saying he is having a adhd/ bipolar/ depression which I amm wondering about @Jynx

My son 3 is having a adhd high this week too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh my god @Jynx your cats are beautiful and so adorable! i wasnt to come and squish them through the screen lol

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its still hard without our supports @Snowie i am coming to rely on my support worker as well and i quite like speaking to my new therapist as well as hard as it is somedays

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It does sound like a crazy week for you @Shaz51 I hope you are able to find some peace and quiet for yourself in amongst all the chaos.

It has been hard @outlander . I have emailed her but she hasn't answered so I am assuming she is still away. I spoke to the pdoc last week so that has helped a little, but I don't open up to him like I do with her.

I'm glad that it is working out with your supports. It is easier when we connect with our supports.

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