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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 6:51 pm AEST

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it is so clever how they make things @Bow i wish i was that talented!

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 6:54 pm AEST

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@outlander not till 11pm. It's a late one tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:15 pm AEST

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oh god that a late one @Snowie

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tymeModerator23 July 2023, 7:16 pm AEST

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@outlander, no, I've never watched nor heard about this TV series, but from what I gather from your conversation with @Bow , is that it is about cake decorating? If so, that's pretty awesome. So unique.

And @Bow , I never got back to you about the autobiographies. I tend to like them all so I don't know any standout ones. What about you? Have you read Anh Do's, Last Refugee?

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:22 pm AEST

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It is @outlander

Just makes the day all that longer.

Any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:23 pm AEST

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@tyme its a baking and cake decorating competition. they get given or they chose an object and they have to make a replica made out of cake. if they fool the judges they can win money. some of the stuff they made on there is so good. they made like duffle bags, printers, boxing gloves, jumpers, even a mona lisa painting all made out of cake! you should def watch it its pretty good trying to guess which is which

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:29 pm AEST

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it really does @Snowie

im on school runs tomorrow. i dont have any other plans at this point though. i think a rest day would be a good idea. my legs pretty sore, i forget the impact of chronic pain sometimes. i sometimes forget about it in the moment but when i get that chance to sit and breathe boy does it remind me!

what about you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:37 pm AEST

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I'm sorry that you are in pain @outlander It must not be a nice feeling to sit with.

Have to do the school run then need to go to kmart to pick up a few things.

I need to try and stay occupied to stop me from thinking 🤦‍♀️

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tymeModerator23 July 2023, 7:37 pm AEST

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That sounds like a pretty cool series @outlander . I'll look out for it.

@outlander , school runs?

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 7:44 pm AEST

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its pretty good @tyme

yeah im dropping my sister and her friend to school tomorrow. theyre going on an excursion tomorrow so they need to be there at 8.

how are you going?

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