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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor15 July 2023, 10:18 pm AEST

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doesnt matter

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2023, 10:20 pm AEST

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Okay @ArraDreaming the offer was there but I understand if you don’t want to talk

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor15 July 2023, 10:25 pm AEST

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Yeah well sane threatened to ban me again if I say how I feel so

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 5:12 pm AEST

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Hi my @outlander How are you?

I have been reading back a bit and have seen it has been a difficult time for you hon.

Really missed you sis 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 5:26 pm AEST

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@Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 5:55 pm AEST

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@tyme i didnt get the job i was hoping for

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tymeModerator16 July 2023, 6:03 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander ,

Thank you for letting us know. I'm wondering what feelings come up for you around this?

Hugs

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 6:05 pm AEST

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that i should learn not to get my hopes up @tyme this was the one i really hoped for and was a great opportunity

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tymeModerator16 July 2023, 6:12 pm AEST

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I'm sorry to hear @outlander . Was this the one that a friend recommended?

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 6:14 pm AEST

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No this was the first one with all the admin stuff and being able to help with care plans and more specialised work with support co-ordinators and clients @tyme

I’ve not heard back from the one my friend reccomended as yet but I don’t have a good feeling about that one after there over reaction to something minor

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