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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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That will be exciting! @outlander .

I remember you mentioning you were in a very stressful job before. Will you be able to change jobs once you finished your studies?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im only staying in the stressful workplace for now @tyme i cant change workplaces because of the home situation not because im not qualified. i could actually change workplaces but work the same sort of job at any point in time. these are just extra studies, extra knowledge so i can progress onto better things. id like to try and take the diploma next year so im really trying to sort the home life out. if i pass the diploma i can come off working the floor and do more personalized things like making support or care plans, working more in peer supporting and being able to contribute towards care plans compared to doing personal care type things that i currently do and having to be in high stress behavioral environments

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Ohhh @Sans911 , missed you lots my friend ❤️

Soo happy to see you

@tyme , @outlander , @Snowie

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tymeModerator

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I hope things get sorted with the home issue @outlander . It sounds so hard to work so hard and then have someone else just 'there', just 'because'.

Good on you for doing these studies to better yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it is hard @tyme there is change coming but its very hard and it seems to be relying on me with alot of resistance atm. im trying my best though

ive done 5 other short courses throughout the year as well. theyre like a day courses or ones that are only a week long so ive been doing alot to try and improve myself

i also got into therapy as well. i spoke to my new psychologist and i have my first appointment in 2 weeks

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@tyme you seem to know me. I gather your user name has changed. I'm sorry I've away so long each time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you today @Sans911 what are you up to today? i really hope you were able to get some sleep last night

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Hello @Sans911 Really lovely to get your tag. I remember your old emergency profile pic before this one. It showed you had been through a lot.

I am freezing too. It can get the spirits down and make the body aches worse.... but hanging in there.

yes re @tyme hey... to you too and @outlander

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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🤗❤️ @Sans911 ….. so good to see you Hon.

😘💕 @Appleblossom @outlander @Shaz51 @tyme @Emelia8 and anyone else around.

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