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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes it does @Snowie

cant wait to be going home. tonight is going so slow. it feels like ive been here for weeks. i still have 3 hours to go yet though

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You still have awhile to go @outlander

Guessing most of the residents are in bed now.

Think I will be heading to bed soon. Not much sleep last night

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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nope not yet. @Snowie theyll be in bed prob around 930

ill be hopefully in bed before midnight tonight depending what time i get home and have dinner and shower.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully you are in bed before midnight @outlander

I don't know how you stay up that late.

Am going to head to bed myself. Have been up since early and haven't been sleeping that well so get tired very early lately.

I hope you can get some sleep tonight.

If I don't speak to you before your op then I hope it goes well. Will be thinking about you hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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habit @Snowie ive been working arvo shifts for so long. the harder oneis night shift. ill have to switch over to night shift brain soon. thats what ill only be able to work for a couple of weeks.

ill speak to you before then. i will be around still for a couple of days yet.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping you got some sleep last night hon.

Wishing you a good day 💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander

I'm not sure if I will be here so just wanted to wish you well for your operation and for your recovery hon.

You show so much strength to go through all of this. Please take care of yourself.

Love you 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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feeling so nervous now. i go for surgery tomorrow morning
just need to have dinner a little bit later so im not peckish later on. have to leave at 5am to be on time.
im organised and ready just feel super nervous now. just finishing my washing for the last day and will put it away so there nothing else to do now
chilling watching a movie after a shower and waiting on dinner. hopefully in bed early

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I think it is normal to be nervous hon.

I hope it all goes ok for you tomorrow. Will be thinking of you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie just need to keep myself occupied till bed time now.
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