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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Snowie then i have 2 days off thankfully

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats good to hear @outlander

Hopefully you can get some sleep in's.

Any plans for your days off?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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tomorrow have to run around and get all my click and collects ive been meaning to get the last few days. i still have pop so not really a day off. feeding horses.

monday-school runs and appts
@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You are always so busy @outlander

I worry you don't get any down time hon, time to yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i never do @Snowie but in 2 weeks im taking a couple of days off for a procedure but im not coming straight back home im staying in a hotel for a couple of days to recover and chill out. might go out for lunch or get my nails or something done with a friend in that time. i cant do much for a couple of weeks post procedure so ill be working night shift and then probably sleeping and chilling in the day. itll give me time to breathe abit

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm glad you are taking some time for yourself after the op @outlander You deserve that time out, especially to do something nice for yourself.

I hope you have help with your pop when you go back home hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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his daughter still lives with us even though it was only suppose to be very temporary now i cant get rid of her. she will stay with pop but i also have a couple of extra hours with pops social workers to take him out through the week

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @tyme above post

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I remember you talking about this a while ago... I didn't realise she is still there! I'm so sorry to hear @outlander . It must be so frustrating. What happens if people 'hint' that she find somewhere herself?

Do others mind her being there?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad the social workers can come in and spend extra time with your pop @outlander

Sounds like his daughter has out stayed her welcome hon. I hope she at least helps you out.

Will say goodnight hon, been up since early this morning so time for bed.

I hope the rest of your shift goes ok.

Love you sis 💗💗

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