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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Appleblossom @outlander 💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander @Appleblossom

Wishing you both a good day 💌💌

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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@outlander , thinking of you lots today , how are you going

@FloatingFeather is also a carer for her brother

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Eve7 @Owlunar @NatureLover @FloatingFeather @Sans911 and all passing through

sending love to you all

how is everyone?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hello @hanami

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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Helloooo! @outlander

Your images are so beautiful. I hope you are doing well. I don't think I've seen you around for a little while.

Warmest wishes

Hanami

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Bunniekins ive not seen you for a while but i wanted to say hello and i hope your ok

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive been around but a little quiet @hanami sometimes its easier to be quiet then to try and talk about whats going on. ive also been tired and my old traumas have been popping up to haunt me, i also just sold my new horse so its been tough. between work and family and studying ive not has as much time to talk on here

how are you going

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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@outlander I'm sorry to hear about the old traumas and being tired. That must be exhausting and yes it's often easier to say nothing. Silence often brings me peace too in stressful time. I feel that more especially as I get older.

Sorry about your horse too. That must have been hard.

I've been pretty good, thank you. Busy with family stuff but mostly good stuff.

Lovely to hear from you

Hanami

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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nature has been bringing me peace lately. ive been going for a walk every day sometimes i listen to music or i just go for a walk and listen to whatever sounds are around me @hanami my life is so noisy and chaotic sometimes i forget what the peace is like

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