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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 1:25 pm AEDT

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i turn 30 in 4 years including this year @Snowie its time to start doing something with life before its over

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 1:29 pm AEDT

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You are still so young @outlander!!

But you are right, it is time to start living the life you want and so deserve.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 1:34 pm AEDT

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if i wait to start living waiting on pop then it may be another 10-30 years @Snowie ive been doing this nearly 10 years now

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 1:37 pm AEDT

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That is a long time to look after your pop hon @outlander and you have put in so much time and effort into looking after him.

I hope you achieve your goals in the coming years.

Have got a career expo next Saturday that I am taking D too. She is in her last year of schooling, so she is looking forward to going to uni next year.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 1:55 pm AEDT

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what does D want to study? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 2:08 pm AEDT

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She wants to study nursing/paramedicine @outlander

She has wanted to do this for quite awhile now. The way she applies herself to her schooling she should get in easily.

In saying that, better go get ready to pick them up from school.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Mar 2023, 5:49 pm AEDT

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thats good @Snowie at least she knows what she wants to do

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Mar 2023, 9:09 am AEDT

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@outlander D has know for a few years what she wants to do. There is a careers expo on it in a few weeks, so if we have time we will take her there. Just worried about how crowded it will be.

Not too good around people.

I hope today goes ok for you hon and that you get at least a little time to yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Mar 2023, 6:05 pm AEDT

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yeah im not a fan of being around to many people either @Snowie

does S know what he wants to do? hes in high school too?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor21 Mar 2023, 6:15 pm AEDT

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D has know for a few years what she wants to do. ----- so glad @Snowie , I knew what I wanted to do xxxx

hello and hugs my @outlander 😍

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