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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7

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OwlunarSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

I really get it that other people have used your good nature for years and this is wearing pretty thin with the free-loader who won't work and takes like "walks" - that must be so frustrating - oh boy.

I agree with @Appleblossom about having your own place where you can retire from the world and think your thoughts and plan your life. I have lived alone for well over 30 years now and I can't imagine how I could live around another person. A lot of that has to do with managing my chronic pain.

You would most likely be able to manage your pain and other emotions in your own space - and I hear you - you are paying off your debts before you find somewhere else to live.

It won't be easy - people will still need you - like your Pop - and your sister - but having your own place will give you the space and time you need to sort our your own life

All the best

Owlunar

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thinking of you lots @outlander

Hoping things are going ok with you.

Love you sis

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is anyone aroudn to talk to?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

Sorry I missed your post but I’m here now if you want to chat ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I'm sorry I haven't been around for you hon. I hope you get the support you truly deserve.

Even though I am not around much at the moment, you are always in my thoughts sis 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you for your post @Owlunar i dont have many words but thank you for posting

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie you need to look after youself the most
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