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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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still getting lots of symptoms @Snowie but getting abit better. i can take some shifts at work again now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you are slowly improving @outlander and can try and get back to work

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Spoke to pdoc today @outlander

He wants me to go into hospital to change one of my meds. Won't let me do it as an outpatient. Need to speak to hubby.

Have ECT tomorrow morning so just about to go to bed. Have to leave home at 6am. The hospital is about an hours drive away.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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6am is an early start @Snowie an early night sounds like a good idea

hopefully everything works out with the med changes. its hard when they ask for hospital admissions instead of at home

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

Hoping you are still improving and today is a good day.

Lots of love 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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a little bit of reality come to me tonight. ive only got a few years left in my 20s and feel like i havent really accomplished anything and like life just isnt going anywhere.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Life is tricky hon @outlander Some days we feel like we have accomplished so much and then other days we don't.

You have been through so much and are dealing with life the best you can. I am super proud of you hon 💕💕

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

Personal Best is enough Bella.

No need to compare.

You have done quite a few things since I met you.

Respect.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

I think you accomplish heaps every day plus you’re kindhearted, honest and hardworking.

Is there something you want to accomplish before turning 30? Maybe it’s not unreachable.

💙💕💙

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