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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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amber22Senior Contributor

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I hope you have a restful night tonight, and good luck with tomorrow ❤️ @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💕💕

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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Dear @outlander

So much still going on for you.

Working long hours and studying demands meeting unreasonable deadlines.

That is pressure for someone who is well.

You my dear, are about to go into hospital I read for treatment.

You must rest your body before any hospital procedure.

Noone wants to.

I am still in recovery mode week no 3 from my latest procedures and testing.

Fed up, bored and so on.

A must though.

Your body needs to store that vital energy and all of its nutrients to assist with healing after.

You have been waiting for so long to get help and now it is nearly here.

This could completely turn your life around and set you on a different pathway of less pain and more opportunity to have a better life.

Which do you choose?

Finish a course that you don't really want to do?

Work at a job where your rights are not being acknowledged?

Put all of your efforts into improving your health and quality of life?

Sometimes we have to ask ourselves some really hard questions that we don't want to.

You have already gained and achieved so much from all of your hard work.

That will be recognised in the future.

Rest up

love Sophia1

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hi @Sophia1 its nice to see you popping in. i appreciate the time you took to reply to me.

yes i will be admitted into hospital in another state for a week of continuous infusions for pain treatment.

i dont want to finish the course but im nearly finished now. i have 3 assingments to resubmit and 5 assignments left to do. i dont like it and have no interest in it but im also not one to waste the opportunity for education either. i jsut want to hurry up and get it over and done with.

i am also resigning from my position. i will still work there but not as the team leader. another loss yet again. get promoted and my stupid health is getting in the way especially mentally.

im seeing a counsellor who has already admitted that they dont know how to help me. guess they can start a club now for the amount of times ive heard that.

im undergoing tests for my heart as well. one down 2 more to go plus the review to see what they say.

i just want to finish up all the tafe stuff and start fresh next year. take a couple of weeks off for medical treatment and reassess where im at.
working disability has turned me sour through boredom and some of the attention seeking acts they do (one even admitted to it) i want to help people but not at the cost of being bored and working a 6 day a week job where i dont like it 80t% of the time

its been a very long and hard year and alot has changed. i try to focus on the positives but when an injury takes your life away its hard to see past it some days

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Struggling a lot tonight

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

I’m here if you need a chat or a cuppa hon.

💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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A cuppa would be nice thanks @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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It’s good to be here with you @outlander

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

We have not spoken for a long time.

You have always had a lot to juggle.

Just dropping by to send my good wishes and congrats on all you have achieved. The work, promotion and the study all take a lot of effort. We also have to bend with the wind, your health is playing its card, saying listen, do what is needed.

Travelling to another state for the procedure would add to it all.

Not in real time, but sending a cuppa and a flower for spring.

Allow them to Gently Flow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Eve7
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