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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I hear you there @outlander . However, it seems like a common theme in many industries (not all). In the past, I used to say, "Better the devil I know than the devil I don't". Is the grass greener on the other side? I don't know.

If you like your job and the people, perhaps it's about working with the boss to come to a compromise about whatever is not working?

But for tonight, don't forget to give yourself some rest.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive been trying my best for the last week to work things out @tyme

i am being underpaid about $15-20 an hour currently so i want that fixed

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tymeModerator

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That's a huge difference @outlander . I'm sure there are legal pathways you can follow if needed.

Fingers crossed.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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definently @tyme ive worked out the minor issues like lack of communication and that sort of thing however this is a major issue so itll need to be corrected very quickly

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

How has today been for you @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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today was ok @tyme
i feel like i need more in life something else to work on.
i still dont really now what im doing with work yet though. have some things to think about

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi @outlander

Hoping today has been ok for you hun.

It still sounds like there are lots of questions about work for you to work out. I hope you find the strength to get through it all.

Sending lots of love 💜💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💙💙💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Eve7 how are you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thanks @Snowie work is a struggle some days but it suits my lifestyle so i get so caught up.


i got another 3 assignments handed in though and another 3 ready to go when i can get someone to sign off for me. so 9 assignments in a week! still have 5 modules and about 15 assignments to go but slowly getting there
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