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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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Far out @outlander.Yes I hate to think what Saturday morning will be outlander.Years ago I had to get the vet for the horse on the long weekend.They know how to charge.Just try and chill lol.I always thought pet insurance was money making bullshit but then I read how people have had to pay thousands of dollars for operations.Talk tomorrow my tablet needs charging.Try and rest and I will hobble to bed too lol.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yes its abit scary @Former-Member
Im going to go to bed but with headphones in. I cant be left alone with my thoughts. Thats abit dangerous.
Good night sleep well ❤ ❤

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander I didn't get back yesterday. Just read some of your day and had a thought. Have you ever tried one of those face masks???? A small way of pampering yourself and good for your skin. You can get a fabric like one, put it on and lie back for 25 mins. I know you are going to say you don't do anything for yourself, I don't either, but every now and then this one can be fun. You sound like you have a busy day ahead maybe tonight!!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Good morning @Maggie ❤
I never thought of a face mask. That could.be an idea..i need to try other things cause showers no longer let me feel refreshed and sleep never does that to me.

Ive got a super busy day ahead but im tired so hopefully the wind stays away to make things abit easier.
Horses to feed horses to wash paddocks to clean and ultrasound this morning and last nighy i remembered i have to go get more horse feed and make more up for my horse and i have to go feed and clean out the small ponies paddock as well.

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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See if you can pick up a face mask so you can sit back and relax later. Could you get some for your sisters,they might like a girlie night, finger nail and toe nail polish. Good for a laugh. It sounds like you need one of those. Take care.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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My youngest sister prob wont be able to but the middle one might. Not sure.
Ill see how i go for time today @Maggie ❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Morning all @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Owlunar @Queenie @Maggie
Just been in for my ultrasound hopefully something will show up. I cant afford 200+ for sn mri right now

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QueenieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander. I hope something does show up on your ultrasound too. MRIs are not only expensive, they are awful to go through. I always feel claustrophobic in them.

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Unknown userMember

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@outlander ,yes but they show up more than a x-ray I believe which I probably need but can't afford it either.Hopefully it will be a good outcome or solution.💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Luckily itll only be my foot going in there if need by @Queenie
@Former-Member i know ill have to cough it up if i have to.but im.hoping im not going to have to. I just want to find out whats going on.
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