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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:

thanks @Appleblossom @Snowie @Eve7 @NatureLover (and @Sophia1 just including you here till i can get a chance to reply to your lovely post to me on the other thread)

i have been in hospital for the last 2 days getting IV antibiotics. unfortunately i had a really bad throat and tonsil infection resulting in difficulty breathing and my airways being quite swollen so it was getting very hard to manage.

...

symptoms have gone abit downhill again tonight so ill give the doctors a call tomorrow and see what they say.

Sorry to hear, @outlander 😞

Hoping you can recover quickly from this 💙

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

Your vulnerability to various infections is no good.

All you can do is get better. Work has to wait.

Health comes first.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Paperdaisy @Appleblossom @Eve7 @NatureLover

so far i dont have to go back, theyve just increased the strength and added an extra medication in to try and manage it.
i feel abit better of a day time today but once that cold night air comes in i start going down hil but today there seemed to be some improvements so hopefully it means the meds are finally working properly

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hello @outlander I am glad you’re feeling better in the day time and I hope that is soon the case for you at night.

Sending lots of love, squishy hugs and cups of tea 🍵

💜💙🤗🤗💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i really hope so @Eve7 its been a very long week so far. id like to be well enough to head to work tomorrow night but it might not be the case yet. maybe friday night instead

a cup of tea does sound lovely! care for a biscuit?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Yes please for a biscuit 🍪 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

what have you been up to today? @Eve7

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander

Sometimes the meds make a difference but caring for overall immune health helps too.

 @Eve7

These are favourites of mine.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

most definently @Appleblossom
i havent been able to swallow much more then water so ive just been having some watery soups and hydralyte to keep up with my health. ive been able to have some noodles today so thats a good sign

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

its a lot easier to swallow virtual biscuits than real ones with a bad throat.

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