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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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hey @Emelia8

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You needed some spoiling @outlander and it’s great you managed to do so much in such a short space of time.

I paid for a holiday today so my bank account took a beating but I’m excited for it and hoping my foot is much improved by then.

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@outlander wrote:
my foot is still a mystery. unforutnatly whatever the condition it is that i have (may not be the original diagnosis but something simialr) it has spread to my leg and hip as well as my lower back, neck and has worsened in my face as well so whatever it is, it is spreading.

Really sorry to hear this @outlander 😞

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@outlander

Sorry I haven't been around but so much going on at the moment.

I have been following hon and my heart goes out to you.

I am glad you had a few days away and were able to explore a bit.

Lots of love to you 💕💕

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No good about your foot, and the problem spreading @outlander but really good to "see" you.

I am glad you treated yourself a bit.

Managers can set the tone of the work culture. Sometimes the extra stress is not worth the extra pay. Each situation is different.

@Emelia8 @NatureLover @Snowie

@Eve7 I have paid for 2 holidays recently. A weekend away and then a week away in January/ Sort of investment in my future. I keep trying to talk my son into a little holiday for himself on his terms ... work in progress there.

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Hi @Appleblossom yes, I have one holiday in November and another November 2023 plus a ticket to the ballet in October.

Sounds right to invest in the future

❤️💚

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thanks @Appleblossom @Snowie @Eve7 @NatureLover (and @Sophia1 just including you here till i can get a chance to reply to your lovely post to me on the other thread)

i have been in hospital for the last 2 days getting IV antibiotics. unfortunately i had a really bad throat and tonsil infection resulting in difficulty breathing and my airways being quite swollen so it was getting very hard to manage. i wasnt able to take antibiotics at home as i wasnt able to swallow anything besides a sip of water and even that was a struggle. ive been home today but still need to continue treatment at home now that i can swollow. symptoms have gone abit downhill again tonight so ill give the doctors a call tomorrow and see what they say. at least my temp has come back to a normal level as it was around 39 before. hopefully i dont have to go back again 😞

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Sorry to hear you're unwell @outlander wishing you a speedy recovery 💛

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thanks @Paperdaisy
i just got over an ear infection before my holiday and then when i get back from holiday this happens! its so frustrating. ive had a fair bit of time off and looks like i still wont be back till the end of the week the way this current infection is going

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Sorry to hear about you being so unwell @outlander

Sending lots of love

💙💙💙💙💙

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