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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:09 pm AEST

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how are you @Eve7 hows your day been

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:09 pm AEST

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I am so glad you’ve checked in tonight @outlander but I’m sorry about your pain being so debilitating.

When do you go to see the Dr about it and have your mini holiday? I truly hope you get some answers.

💜💜💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:13 pm AEST

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@outlander yes lil Sis I'm here

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:17 pm AEST

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its not for 3 weeks @Eve7 so im just trying to look at that atm. ive tried everything. its been nearly a year. ive had over 100 appts, spent over 6k, over 10 tests, several types of injections and countless treatments and i still cant live a normal life at this rate. i even turned to something i never thought i would. its a legal version of something illegal but ive gone off it now

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:18 pm AEST

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I saw pdoc today and the surgeon who did my ankle surgery so I’ve had a rather medical day @outlander. Tomorrow I see the physio so it seems all I do is attend appointments lol.

It’s been raining here most of the day which I find really difficult as I’m a sunshine and beach person. Hope it clears up soon.

Just having a hot chocolate before bed.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:18 pm AEST

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i just miss you @Sans911 i get like that when im having a bad night

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:20 pm AEST

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yeah i totally get that @Eve7 i hope your ankle is healing well though.

its been raining on and off here for weeks, its ridiculous

hot chocoalte sounds nice. ive just made a tea. i have a 14 hour shift but its prob going to just about k**l me bu the end of it

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:23 pm AEST

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I’ve been really fortunate with the surgeon who did my ankle @outlander . I truly hope you have a similar experience as you deserve a break.

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 July 2022, 9:24 pm AEST

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I think you and all my forum family all the time my angel @outlander.

@Eve7 evening

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tymeModerator21 July 2022, 9:24 pm AEST

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I'm around for a little longer @outlander . I'm sorry to hear about your pain. Please look after yourself. I know you have a challenging job - but remember your health.

We are here for you,

tyme

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