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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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In response to: not coping

AppleblossomSenior Contributor19 July 2022, 11:43 pm AEST

Re: not coping

@outlander That is a lot of complexity you are managing: work, life and health. Great idea to do a bit of exploring too.

I had a few knocks first half of year, but seem to be bouncing back quicker after them. Realising I should not put up with stuff. So I am doing alright atm.

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Eve7Senior Contributor19 July 2022, 11:54 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Thanks for responding @outlander I’m glad you’re still around and I really hope you get treatment for your foot / leg soon.

Im falling asleep xo

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 July 2022, 2:23 am AEST

Re: not coping

Hi @outlander.

Hoping your trip goes well and you get the treatment you need for your leg and foot. Enjoy having a couple of free days to explore.