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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Shaz51

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Captain24 i really need time to destress from all my work as well. being a manager can be hard plus support work and home life. so a couple of days away might be nice.

ive been really sick the last couple of days and still not much better so im just watching movies and kinda holiday planning

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m ok thanks @Captain24 I don’t have COVID which is good but gp wants me to isolate until symptoms are gone.

What’s happening with you?

I hope you get lovely sunshiny weather so you can really relax and enjoy yourself. @outlander

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JynxModerator

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Sooo tough @outlander my fingers and toes are criss crossed for you 🤞💜

Ha! I don't do seafood either. Much prefer something warm and hearty, especially in this cold!

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Being a manager can be hell @outlander. It is a mind game in itself. I totally do not miss it!

Glad it’s not Covid @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so too @Eve7 i hope its nice weather. dont mind the cold but not pouring rain on my few days off


me too @Jynx i quite like salads and things too though

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont mind it some days @Captain24 but some days id really rather not be the boss

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JynxModerator

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For sure @outlander - a salad done right is its own meal! Hope you found something that tickles your fancy. Sounds like you deserve to treat yourself! 🤗💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont understand why my anxiety can come around for such random things. it gets overwhelming

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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definently @Jynx
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