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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor14 June 2022, 11:22 pm AEST

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I knew you’d understand @outlander

I did shift work for years but not anymore.and I still haven’t decided if I’ll return to work when and if my foot recovers. That decision is in the too hard basket for now.

Going to try and get some sleep. 😴

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2022, 11:24 pm AEST

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yep i understand @Eve7 im not sure ill have a job much longer with the way my medical conditions are too. just taking it day byday really.

i hope you can get some sleep. my next shift will be here in the next few minutes thankfully

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Sans911Senior Contributor18 June 2022, 9:25 pm AEST

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Evening lil Sis @outlander. I just popped in to say hi❤️❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 June 2022, 11:45 am AEST

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aww ive probably missed you now @Sans911 it is one the best hellos in a long time though! soo good to see you!

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 June 2022, 12:06 pm AEST

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how are you @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 June 2022, 12:14 pm AEST

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@outlander I'm doing alright thanks my lil Sis. Fibro has been kicking my butt. Lots of things happening in my life, like everyone, but I'm seeming to cope OK.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 June 2022, 3:28 pm AEST

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oh dear @Sans911 fibro isnt great

whatve you been up to? Hows your cats going? is your little kitten going ok?

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 June 2022, 4:03 pm AEST

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 June 2022, 4:34 pm AEST

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oh my gosh she has grown! @Sans911 how old is she now? does she get along with Mr A?

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 June 2022, 5:34 pm AEST

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Clio is about 14 month's old now. She absolutely rules the house here lol! Poor Mr A. He gets harrased a lot! Kicked out of his bed she eats from his bowl. But yes they do get along fairly one. Just the occasional biffo which I need to separate them!

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