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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 May 2022, 7:11 am AEST

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Sending lots of love @outlander

💜💜💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 7:25 am AEST

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Sending hugs @outlander ...

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 10:58 am AEST

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thanks @Eve7 @NatureLover

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hanamiSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 11:08 am AEST

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Hey @outlander

How are things for you today? I'm around if you need to talk.

hanami 💮

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 2:14 pm AEST

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thanks @hanami
im trying to keep myself busy today. im struggling quite alot

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 5:10 pm AEST

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@outlander sorry to hear you are struggling hon. You have so much going on at the moment.

I wish I was around more to support you but please know you are always in my thoughts.

Love you sis 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 5:40 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie its hard atm. surgery side effects are still in effect but i cant get in to see the specialist till the end of this month. my mental health is going down abit but ive found a liking to planting and making a garden so i started one today that i can have in the house without all the pollens and stuff associated with plants

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 May 2022, 5:45 pm AEST

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I am glad you have found something nice to do for yourself @outlander It is hard when our mental health starts going down. I am around for a bit if you need to chat about anything.

I hope all of your results come back ok.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 May 2022, 2:28 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie i cant see the specialist for another month yet but ive been quite sick so ive made an appt with another doctor today to ask for some advice

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 May 2022, 4:12 pm AEST

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I hope your doctors appointment went ok today @outlander

Hoping also you feel a little better today hon

Sending lots of love 💗💗

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