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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry @outlander I’ve only just seen this post. There are demons in my head tonight 😫 so I wouldn’t be much help. 💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander sending lots of love to you hon 💗💗

@Eve7 hoping your head is a bit better today and things are going ok

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Are you OK @outlander xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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today 8 years ago, one of my worst traumas happened and to this day i havent forgotten. i dont think ill ever forget. its probably why i have been struggling so much. i thought being extremely busy would be most helpful but i still cant concentrate or think clearly. its really beginning to affect my studies

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Unknown userMember

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Evening @outlander,

Just want to acknowledge the anniversary of the trauma you experienced and the pain I can imagine it caused. Trauma is a pesky thing – we can run as fast as our legs will allow, and yet it has a way of catching up to us.

Please be gentle with yourself and allow your spirit the space, if you are able, to feel whatever emotion may be present. Sometimes a night/day off to sit with the feelings means that your mind is better able to attend to the things you'd prefer it to i.e. your studies.

Rhye ☘️

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am sorry this trauma occurred @outlander

Please be kind to yourself tonight.

Lots of love 💜💜💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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So sorry about your trauma @outlander 💔

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Former-Member @NatureLover @Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

I hope today is going a little better for you hon. You are under so much pressure from so many sides at the moment. Please go gentle with yourself.

Sending lots of love your way 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its very stressful here. my pops jsut been in for emergency surgery as well but hes quite a few hours from me so theres been alot of communication between myself, nurses, doctors and many staff in the area hes in atm. has been very stressfull here
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