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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8 beautiful Em, Always good to see you. xxxx

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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❤️ @Emelia8

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BlueBaySenior Contributor

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Take your time lovely @Emelia8

dont rush out

take care xxxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Take your time @Emelia8 its time for others to help you and support you just as youve supported so many in your lifetime. I know it can be hard to accept support sometimes but your in the right place for this moment in time by the sounds of things.
sending love to you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im abit sick atm and waiting on some test results but otherwise im ok @Bunniekins hows your son going, have you found people to listen to you about his drawings of these entities he encounters/

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Ohhh sending you lots of tender hugs my my wonderful sisters @outlander , @BlueBay , @Faith-and-Hope , @Bunniekins , @Bow , @Former-Member

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry to read you're a bit sick atm @outlander I hope you get your test results soon.

I find it easier to talk to you here so hope that is ok?

My pdoc had a death in her family so she has to put them first that is why she'll be away for so long. I'll be ok because I love my forum family and wouldn't let you all down. Enough about me.

How are you going with your assignments? You must be nearly finished. 💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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you can talk wherever you like @Eve7
i have one lot of test results but have 3 more coming tomorrow and have another appointment with the dr in the morning so ive had to take tomorrow off work but ill need to go in and sort out a few things but it should only take me about 2 hours to sort everything all out providing i can get through and its not flooded.

i am finished 2 assignments, just have one more that i hope to get done by saturday so i can submit it. it has to be done by sunday night so im running out of time and then i have another 4 assignments to do throughout the next 2 weeks.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hey, well done with finishing 2 and I'm sure you'll get the next one finished soon. I hope you can take a day or two recover before tackling the next lot.

I'm having surgery on my ankle next month @outlander but until then I'm hobbling around like an ancient Granny!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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the next one requires my boss or a work collegue to sign off on some tasks. normally id be able to use a supervisor but i am the supervisor atm! @Eve7 so im going to have to see if i can get the assignment done tomorrow or saturday despite how sick i feel atm otherwise im going to fail the course. no i wont get a break i have to work the next couple of days and look after pop and attend a few important appointments but i need to try and make a start on the next ones cause they are quite hard and so time consuming.

oh wow are you well prepared for your recovery?
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