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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Snowie
i enrolled in a cert 4 and medication qualification for disability and aged care and lucky for me i was able to get it through a upskill program through centrelink so it was actually paid for for me.

not really sure what i want in the future though. so many things have changed for me and constantly changing. its been a long time since ive had any passion about anything so i dont really have any career directions. if i didnt injure my foot i wouldve been working with the mounted police force but i had to also give that up too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Owlunar my workplace has been supportive. everyone has different personalities in there but im sure they all mean well in their own way. the managers/boss have been good, they have been supportive and have done what they can including speaking to who it was as well and it seems to have stopped but they want some debreifing sessions.

hard to know what i want to do with my future when im no longer passionate about anything; not even the horses anymore

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I am sorry to hear that your foot is still causing you so much drama @outlander It seems like it has affected your life in so many different ways.

I hope work is getting a little better for you 💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie not having a very good day atm. seems like i cant do much and nothings ever enough for some people

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Sorry to read what's been happening for you in the last few pages @outlander 😞

Sending wishes that things improve 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear your day wasn't good hon @outlander

I hope today has been a little better for you sis

Lots of love 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Snowie @NatureLover
💛

Im feeling quite nervous about tomorrow. Have some tests that need to be done that take a few hours but will hopefully provide some clearer direction on my allergies and skin reactions etc. Ive had to wait nearly a year to have these tests done because of covid and restrictions so im glad its finally happening


@Sans911 💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander

💙🤗💙

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Sans911Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hope everything goes smoothly tommorow @outlander and you get some answers ❣️❣️

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
Im feeling quite nervous about tomorrow. Have some tests that need to be done that take a few hours but will hopefully provide some clearer direction on my allergies and skin reactions etc. Ive had to wait nearly a year to have these tests done because of covid and restrictions so im glad its finally happening

Hoping the tests go well today, @outlander ...

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