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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2021, 10:43 pm AEDT

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im just glad to see you sis. just been missing you @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Dec 2021, 11:28 pm AEDT

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You're going through so much @outlander. It's awful that there's no end in sight.

Life has been very hectic, stressful and challenging over the past few months.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2021, 11:34 pm AEDT

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Yes it sure is @Sans911 maybe one day itll end but no time soon. I was hoping to be asleep soon but its not looking likeley. Gotta be up at 430 for work

How are you going? What have you been up to?

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Sans911Senior Contributor15 Dec 2021, 11:53 pm AEDT

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Sooo much has been happening @outlander. I don't even know where to start.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2021, 11:58 pm AEDT

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Yes i can imagine @Sans911 why not just share some of the more important thing to you. Im sure we will catch up so can fill in the gaps as we go

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Sans911Senior Contributor16 Dec 2021, 12:52 am AEDT

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I feel quite disconnected from here (forums) now. It wasn't my intention to stay away. Makes it hard to come back and reconnect

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Dec 2021, 1:33 am AEDT

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Thats ok @Sans911 you can talk about whatever you like. Its just good to see you popping up.
Got any plans for tomorrow or through the weekend?

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Sans911Senior Contributor16 Dec 2021, 1:35 am AEDT

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Don't rely on me, as I'll let you down. I'm not a good person right now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Dec 2021, 3:55 am AEDT

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@Sans911 Even if your struggling, your still a good person. Sometimes our brains just dont like to co-operate and like to make life much harder then it needs to be.

Do you want to talk about anything? Im more then happy to listen 💜

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Emelia8Senior Contributor16 Dec 2021, 4:19 am AEDT

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@outlander @Sans911 🌷🌻💕

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