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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds lovely @Eve7 i havent heard of that movie.
I hope S1 will be ok. thats a long time to be off work

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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It’s a good movie for Remembrance Day as there was nothing on tv @outlander

S1 will have been off work for 6 months but he’s been studying while recuperating.

Did you get some support tonight?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats good, at least he is keeping his mind active and doing something while he cant work @Eve7

i am still in a que but im tiring so probably wont stay up much longer waiting around for lifeline

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That’s a shame you’re still waiting @outlander Last time I called them I gave up waiting too.

Maybe you call SANE in the morning. I’m getting tired too. It’s been a long week.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it has been a long week. the days have seemed so slow @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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You’re not wrong there @outlander

I really hope you get some relief soon as you don’t need to be suffering like this. Will your mother hep out at all or is that a stupid question?

Here’s hoping for a better tomorrow xox

💜💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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She cant afford to help out @Eve7 im just trying my best to get through. I have a surgery in 2 weeks as well so have been preparing for that abit as well

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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You sure are a trooper hon @outlander and must have been born tough to cope with so much every day. I just hope you get some relief soon as well as some $$$

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Lots of love sis @outlander 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i feel alone. i feel like the connection i made have all just slipped away. i knew that the positive things would slip away for whatever reason. i should be use to being alone by now.

i have a job interview tomorrow. i dont really want to go to it. i was excited at the possibility of having a job but its not really a job i want or think id be good at even though others have said ill be ok.
i have done so much out of my comfort zone this year but i am also tired. tired of always being the caregiver.
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