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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:28 pm AEST

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im watching everyone loves raymond atm @Snowie i think its one ive seen just as much as youve seen bbt!

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cloudcoreSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:33 pm AEST

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@outlander , after work today I'll be putting my head down and focusing on my studies. So much to catch up on! I hope you and @Snowie enjoy your afternoon having a cuppa and watching tv

from cloudcore

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:34 pm AEST

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thanks @cloudcore
hope your studies are going well. im studying atm too, almost finished the course now. just a few assignments and an exam left to do

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:39 pm AEST

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Hope work and your studies go well @cloudcore

@outlander you are getting through your course hon. I am sure you will do amazingly on the rest of your assignments and your exam.

Enjoy watching Everyone Loves Raymond. I am watching BBT for something different!!

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cloudcoreSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:39 pm AEST

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@outlander I wish you the best of luck with your assignments and exam, you're almost there! Well done for persisting in spite of the chaos of the world.

from cloudcore

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:42 pm AEST

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thanks @cloudcore i wish the same for you too

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:46 pm AEST

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i hope so @Snowie this lecturer seems to take ages to mark any assignments though. its been over a month since i handed in one (and then usually every 2 weeks hand in another one) and hasnt been marked yet

lol wow change of tv show for you 😂

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 1:56 pm AEST

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Yeah, something different for me @outlander !! Not much on tv during the day and really don't want to watch the news, it is depressing.

That is a long time to wait for an assignment to be marked hon. Hopefully you get the result back soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 2:00 pm AEST

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yep i dont watch the news or really any tv except sometimes the voice or big brother or something but not news. dont really even go on social media much except for texting or just basic things

yeah its abit annoying having to wait, i just checked and its actually been 6 weeks since i handed it it. she took nearly 4 weeks till i asked about the first assignment to be marked. ive been trying to guage how i could improve by the marked assignments but at this rate im going to be done before she marks the 3rd one i had to do!

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 2:01 pm AEST

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@Snowie ^^^

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