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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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cloudcoreSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander ,

I'm doing well, thank you for asking . Just supporting and following this thread as I noticed yesterday you weren't feeling well. Are you managing any better today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh bugger @Snowie that sucks. hopefully you can find a nice quiet space even outside in the car to talk. psychology appointments or associated ones should be classed as essential and able to be done in person if masks are worn. they harp on about how important mental health is especially during lockdown but then they go do that 😣😣

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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They should be classed as essential but are not @outlander I would happily wear a mask for the whole session if I had too. This means that my pdoc appointment will be via phone too.

Just another thing to add to this whole debarkle. It is hard to want to keep going when things are like this.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats good to hear @cloudcore im not much better but just trying to get through i think

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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urgh makes it so frustrating @Snowie any word on how long lockdown will be for your state or area?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No word hon @outlander on how long this will go on for.

They said 2nd September but with numbers going how they are I think it will be for longer.

Just frustrating. I know I have people I can reach out too but just want to shut myself in a room and disappear.

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cloudcoreSenior Contributor

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Here with you @outlander , it's okay to have a couple of days spent resting and recovering

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i understand that completely @Snowie but how about you make a cuppa and come watch tv with me instead. i could use the company too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @cloudcore thats sweet of you
what are you up to today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Just made myself a cuppa @outlander Will come and join you.

Are you watching a movie?

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